Avoid a Love Breakup - Tips on How to Spot and Avoid a Love Breakup

A love break up can hit you like a freight train. You are standing on the tracks not suspecting a thing, and wham, out of nowhere, it runs you down. Have you experienced this in your love life? You look around and wondered how you couldn't have seen this coming?

Well here are some suggestions on how to prevent that from happening again, and it might even help you mend the problem, and get back together with the one you love.

One of the hardest things to do, is to be able to tell if a person is behaving in a particular way because they want a relationship to be over, or something else just happens to be going on in their life.

For instance you partner might be a very loving person, and prone to hugging and kissing while they are close to you. So if all of sudden this stops, you have to stop and wonder why. But I don't want you thinking the worst right off the bat.

It's possible something is bothering them that has nothing to do with the relationship, so ask some questions but be considerate and loving. If they refuse to give answers, and are cold to you, then they might be thinking of a love break up.

Another way to tell is to gently snuggle up to them, and put your arm around them, if they find some way to get away from you, or turn on you, then your relationship could be in trouble. When a normally affectionate person becomes distant and cold, it is possible they are thinking of leaving.

Of course you know your partner better than anyone, so you must judge for yourself if this behavior is out of place. Don't confuse how they are outside the bedroom with how they are inside the bedroom.

Some people are very affectionate in and out of the bedroom. Others might not show that much out of the bedroom because they are just not comfortable showing their feelings in public. But your sex life is another story.

We all go through up's and down's in this area (no pun intended). Sometimes you can't get enough of each other, and other times it might only be a couple of times a month or less. That's alright, and expected, people can be tired and just not in the mood for all kinds of reasons.

But if there is always a reason, or they don't even give you reason anymore, then there is trouble in the relationship. Again you know your partner better than anyone, so you need to be able read the situation, and decide if it more than it seems.

And last but not least is honesty. Have they been truthful with you? Sometimes people will withhold something from their partner for good reason. It could be for your own protection at the time, or they are planning something that is going to be a surprise for you.

Eventually though they are going to tell you. If you find out they haven't been truthful with you, and it does not fall into the reasons stated above, then you need to find out what is going on. Deceit will kill a relationship, and diminishes the prospect of getting back together.

So sit down with them, and in a compassionate and loving manner, discuss the issues that are causing them to behave this way. If you see the signs, and can get them out in the open early, there is a great chance you can prevent a love break up. And if it has already happened, then it is still possible to rebuild your relationship.

Do you need help now in your relationship? Have you already broken up but would like to get back with your ex? Well you use the same techniques that have worked for thousands of others? Methods you won't find anywhere else? Some so unique you just wont believe they will work?