Why Give Love a Chance?

You wonder why the world at large has not known peace in its true sense of it, because love has not been displayed in its true sense.

Many a times, we take accepting people for what we like in them as love. No! This is no true love. It can be referred to as conditional love. What if we wake up tomorrow and those reasons for accepting them initially are no longer there? Then, frustration, fault-finding, and nagging become the order of the day. We therefore end up enduring our love life instead of enjoying it.

When the reason for you being happy in a relationship is because those things you like are still existing, then get ready for a shocker because every relationship goes or passes through its testing period. It is only the power of true love that can sustain that relationship when the windy period comes.

Consider you marrying your spouse for having a good shape and in the course of the marriage he or she loses the shape. What becomes of the "love" you profess to have for him or her?

What then do we need to avoid such an occurrence? We need to give love a chance.

Tips on why we need to give love a chance.

When true love is not given a chance in any relationship, then we pay for it with our time, feelings and money. Time: Yes! Time will be paid because one will need to spend more time on things one considers as a substitute to the missing love. Some spend more time working and get engrossed with their jobs that they hardly have time for something else. Guess what! This is no solution for nothing can take the place of true love. Being a workaholic will only lead to more frustrations, condemnation and worries deep inside of you.

Feeling: Yes! This is the worst payment you can make. The reason is not far fetched. We are created with feelings and it must be filled with something. There is a room for emotion in the heart of every sane human being which longs for occupancy. The right occupant of that emotional room is true love. When true love is missing, one feels so empty and unfulfilled. Rather than having a feeling of love, boredom takes over. The vacuum of true love will then be filled with heart breaking thoughts which lead to many sicknesses and diseases. Diseases that affect the heart, muscles, appetite and even sleep.

It is so pathetic to know that most people die of diseases given other names to but are caused by absence of true love.

Money: This is the inevitable payment one makes when true love is lacking. Hard earned money will eventually be spent on drugs to cure diseases caused by lack of true love. So painful! Is it not better then if we pause to consider giving true love a chance to thrive that we may avoid spending our hard earned money on drugs?

We can live healthily, the world at large can have peace if true love is given a chance.

If accepting my partner or people for what I like in them is not true love but conditional love, what then is true love?

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