Wouldn't it be nice if we could take a magic pill and have a perfect relationship?
You know it's not that easy, and there is no such thing as the perfect relationship, but . . .
it is possible to have a darn good relationship, if you apply my two-part formula for making love last. I've used various versions of this basic formula for almost three decades to help couples solve their relationship problems and enjoy satisfying relationships that last.
Yes, relationships are complicated and there are many aspects to very good ones, but if you do two things especially well, you can improve the quality of your relationship in significant ways. And the formula is so simple it almost seems too good to be true.
The Two-Step Formula
Step one
Banish negativity and negativity, and overcome misguided tendencies to complain about what's wrong . . . become the most positive person you can be.
In other words, cultivate optimism and develop an iron-clad irrepressible positive mental attitude.
Find the beauty and joy in life and reflect it like a mirror to others, including your beloved special one.
Nothing, in the long run, will make you happier, healthier and sexier than a good attitude. In fact, it will help you to live longer!
People love being around a positive person, and will do almost anything to spend time with you if you are one of the most positive people they know.
So go for the gusto: learn to be more positive than you ever dreamed you'd be. You'll keep that big love of yours, and you'll make sizzling romance happen every day.
Step Two
Employ your natural sense of humor in everyday life situations and in your most precious relationships to make everyone relax and enjoy being with you more. A cultivated sense of humor is a secret weapon for romance!
Giving the ones you love the benefit of your delightful and humorous self is like writing a big old love letter to them!
Train yourself to be humorous and to use your humor skills at the right time -- when they are needed! A good sense of humor has stopped many a foolish argument and turned countless tense situations into happy ones.
And humor has brought smiles to faces for centuries.
Although everyone has a sense of humor, they may not use it, or they may not have the confidence to rely on it. But that can be changed!
Train your sense of humor to help you get through the tough times -- you probably already use your sense of humor in this way. Don't try to be a comedian, just use your natural ability to be funny and trust it.
A little laughter can be the world's greatest medicine -- and what wonders it can do for your relationship! Successful relationships are built on trust, love and loyalty, and successful couples have a humorous way of looking at life and at themselves.
Big Tip
Try stretching your sense of humor so you can use it in any situation. Use it to break the ice or to keep your relationship from becoming too serious. Practice makes perfect. Take it out of the closet, dust it off and start using it!
Life was meant to be enjoyed, and we learn and grow fastest when we are having fun! Start adding a touch of humor to everyday tasks, every learning situation and all the big events of your life.
Bedroom Magic
And don't forget humor works like a charm in the bedroom, too. If you try something and it feels awkward or doesn't quite work, you won't have to turn red, as long as you are seeing the humorous side of things. No need to feel like a fool, and you and your partner can laugh in a good-natured way about it.
A sense of humor is a great turn-on, and it will keep working for you, long after you've gotten the love of your life . . . and it will help you to keep him/her.
Keep in mind, when you go through life with a powerful positive attitude and a well cultivated sense of humor, you'd better be prepared for success. You will be popular and in demand. And you'll be prepared to make your most precious relationships work for you!
Richard Hamon is a dynamic coach and therapist with 30 years of professional experience. Richard helps people to solve their relationship problems, enjoy truly extraordinary marriages and find exceptional success in all areas of their lives.
You'll find all kinds of articles on how to spice up your relationships and lead a happier life at Richard's website, Happy-Relationships.com. Find out about personal coaching programs to assist you in quickly reaching your loftiest goals. Discover eBooks, relaxation CDs and other informative products, such as a free relationship quiz to help you assess your relationship.
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